Fissure hell!

Subject: Re: Fissure hell! June 15th 2008, 12:09 pm

It is compounded with petroleum jelly which seems to adhere better.
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Subject: Re: Fissure hell! June 15th 2008, 2:04 pm

Thnak you

I think I will ask my CRS to import some off them. Much better with gel.

This may sound crazy to some...But has anyone tried sex toys to enlarge their anus? Butt plugs etc
I am so tired of my super tight butt....

Subject: Re: Fissure hell! June 15th 2008, 3:09 pm

sort of.

i don't care for the anal toys but at one point i was desperate and tried it.

i felt afterwards that i had more microfissures - or what can be perceived as more irritations on the membrane as it stretched.

its one of the reasons why i never enjoyed anal sex......it feels horrible right after and the next day and the next week until finally the little microfissures go away.

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my CRS advised not to go this route - ie, with the anal toys or even fingers. just let your fissure heal.

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however, if you are familiar with poppers lars, then that may be an alternative to try if you haven't already. i guess since it is soooo quick upon inhilation, that i bet if you had the urge to go to BM, you could inhale the poppers and then have your BM.

or something like that......
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Subject: Re: Fissure hell! June 15th 2008, 4:55 pm

Hello happyass

No I am not familiar with poppers. What is that?

Subject: Re: Fissure hell! June 15th 2008, 8:19 pm

well poppers is a liquid that is sold most likely where ever anal toys/butt plugs are sold.

they sometimes have a label called poppers or also known as VCR head cleaner (hmmmm....) it comes in a very small vial that you can fit in your pant pocket. you open it up and sniff (don't induce!) - just sniff. and in a matter of seconds, you begin to get a rush. by sniffing it continuously, it affects other sensory abilities.

anyway, they help reduce/diminish pain receptors and/or loosen the anus for butt play and/or intercourse.

usually the receptive partner inhales poppers during foreplay and gets really excited to be penetrated and usually the poppers will make it more so enjoyable.

i was weird....i liked to sniff it on the dance floor because it gave me an incredible rush in the brain!!!! and you just felt the dance beat so much more intensely.....
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Subject: Re: Fissure hell! June 29th 2008, 11:31 am

Hey Lars -

How have you been doing lately???? I have been thinking about you!! I hope all is well. No news is good news I hope.

Jen flower

Subject: Re: Fissure hell! July 1st 2008, 1:09 pm

Hey Jen

I am sorry to report that I still have pain/discomfort 24/7 Sad

It seems that nothing works for me. Not even the healing of time. Having a BM doesn`t hurt much anymore just a burning sensation when doing it and a little while after. But I have a dull ache and tightness feeling(I think it feels like this) all the time....The 7 July I have an appointment with my CRS. I am not expecting much though..The last time I had an appointment with him he said that it isn`t sure I ever will be able to be pain/discomfort free again...That was a real bummer Sad

I hope that you are doing better than me.

VIP Joined : 23 Apr 2008 Posts : 803 Mood : good

Lars,

You are young and will heal. One of my CRS docs said AF are quite common in young males. Hopefully, your consultant can prescribe an ointment or suggest some other treatment. Don't give up the ship!!

Cheryl

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Subject: Re: Fissure hell! July 1st 2008, 2:22 pm

That's too bad to hear, Lars. I can't believe your CRS would just tell you, you might have to live like this. That is simply not true. There are options out there. Unfortunately, it doesn't seem like things more very quickly out there. I am glad July 7th is coming up and don't leave until he gives you a plan to help you deal with this. Hang in there. I know it's tough!
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Subject: Re: Fissure hell! July 1st 2008, 2:24 pm

Lars,
in my opinion, a CRS who says you will never be pain free again needs to be given the boot. Cant you see someone else?
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Subject: Re: Fissure hell! July 1st 2008, 2:29 pm

Yeah, Val, kind of makes you wonder why he got into medicine with that kind of attitude. wack

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Subject: Re: Fissure hell! July 1st 2008, 3:14 pm

Lars - find another CRS, please !!! There is no point going in circles with that moron !!! He obviously has no clue how to treat fissures and if he is avoiding LIS better don't do it with him !!! Maybe he made somebody incontinent in the past and is not taking any more risks (which is good in his case since he is obviously incompetent )!!!

Cheryl - everybody can develop a fissure - it is same incidence for males and females , young and old. The only difference is that babies and children and elderly have looser sphincters and usually heal much easier that young adults.

Lecia-baby - most people go to med school because of money and the "title" - sad ... I know ...: (.

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Makes sense that babies, children, and elderly would have looser sphincters and would heal faster. Never thought about that!! Going to a golf lesson with hopes that it might help the game.

Subject: Re: Fissure hell! July 1st 2008, 8:13 pm

Lars -

Sorry your feeling bad still!

I agree with everyone that your doctor needs the boot. I had a family doctor tell me that I just needed to deal with it - what a idiot.

I hope everything goes well on the 7th. If I were you, I would ask about LIS. Let us know how it goes!

Jen

Subject: Re: Fissure hell! July 2nd 2008, 8:16 am

Dears Lars
So sorry to hear things are not improving for you Crying or Very sad

This problem CAN be fixed and i hope you find a good CRS that will tell you the same !
Wishing you the very best for your appointment on the 7th
Take care
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